Yesterday, Blogger decided it would be a good day to fuck me, and so it failed
to function properly. Therefore, I was
unable to begin National Blog Post Month.
Despite Blogger being a
bastard, I am trudging on. I will not
accept defeat even though Day One could be classified as an “epic fail.” My resilience leads me to share one of my
favorite quotes from Mary Pickford: “This thing we call failure is not in the
falling down, but the staying down.” If
you are a friend or follower, you know that this girl always, always, gets back up -- even when others would like to see me stay
on the ground.
There are a few folks that are
always happy to see me rise again – and many of them exist within the blogging
community. When I first began blogging,
I had no idea what a supportive group of individuals existed out there in the
blogosphere. It’s been about three months since I started this journey, and
nearly every day I’m discovering some great new voice or being discovered by a
blogger who is already far more established than I. There’s two fantastic communities that I owe
much of this wonderful ride to – yeah write and Blogger Idol. I had hoped to have my play at home link up
yesterday, but you know … Blogger was
being a bitch. Blogger was not being a fun bitch like me
either; it was a nasty bitch. Yes, there
is absolutely a difference.
This week’s Blogger Idol play at home
link is truly a tribute to the beautiful blogging community. It began from the concept “Good Bloggers Pay
it Forward,” and thus the assignment was to discuss and promote at least four
of your favorite blogs – with one of those blogs belonging to an individual
associated with Blogger Idol. Because I
always need to bend the rules at least a little bit, I’m focusing on five
amazing blogs this week. Furthermore,
all these blogs are from intelligent, witty women that could totally kick your
ass if it came to that. I want these bad
ass bitches on my side, so let’s begin:
#1. I met Susannah Brown through yeah write, and
I am absolutely certain that we would be besties in real life. We already discussed buying those necklaces
we all had in about sixth grade – you know the ones that are split in the
middle and when placed together read “Best Friends,” and make everyone else
feel excluded. Susannah writes over at Whoa Susannah! (formerly
Write, Rinse, Repeat) and she is one hell of a witty wordsmith with a colorful
upbringing that left her with many unique characters. Susannah also coined the brilliant term “Douche
Zeppelin” for when that stoner ex-boyfriend was such a massive pile of shit
that douche-bag doesn’t properly describe the full force of his asinine existence. I love her for this! You would love her too,
so be sure to check her out because her “self-worth is based on page views.”
#2. Elizabeth Jayne Liu is the most adorable thug
you will ever meet in your life. I feel
fairly certain she hates me right now for calling her adorable, but I just want
to squeeze her cuteness … and then we can go cut a bitch together. Like me, Elizabeth doesn’t feel the need to
filter herself. She admits that she
tried to stop swearing once, but this led to drugs. Elizabeth is leaps and bounds and other big
jumping kinds of words more popular than me, but I still want to plug her
awesomeness. She is totally hilarious, and
also offers excellent advice. Such
advice is evident in her checklist to determine if you’re dating a mother
fucker. Liu poses such questions as “Do
all of his ex-girlfriends hate the shit out of him?” Answer yes to any of the
questions involved in this asshole assessment and Liu offers: “Run like the
wind, bitch, run like the wind.” If you
aren’t already following her blog, run like the wind to Flourish in Progress and
embrace (t)hug life with Liu.
#3. This one is my required Blogger Idol
candidate. However, I would have
recommended her regardless. It’s the CheekyDiva – deep thoughts from a shallow mind. You will know why I’m loving on this lady if
you head over to her blog right now and read the current post heading: “Hey
Dumbass – yeah you, listen up!” I want
to get shit-faced with this woman and shout insults at random strangers. I think we had the same idea going into
blogging. She recalls her start-up like
this: “ Me: I’ll
start a blog. It will be the most bestest creation ever. All will read and bow
down to me and I will have a book deal by the end of the first week.” If you’re a friend or follower, this sounds
far too much like me. Does everyone
remember when I sent a letter to Jenny Lawson (aka The Bloggess) at week six,
whining: “I’ve been at this shit for like six weeks. Why am I not wildly popular by now? What the
fuck?” The Cheeky Diva shares plenty of
her WTF moments too, and they are all laugh out loud (really) hysterical.
#4. Mayor Gia is another blogger I discovered through the
wonderful world of yeah write. But,
Mayor Gia doesn’t just write like the rest of us boring, tiresome fucks. She is an amazing animator, and is guaranteed
to have you laughing (yes, out loud).
Truth be told, my own spouse reads more posts from Mayor Gia than he
does from me. Expect to read my post
about getting a divorce in the coming weeks (yeah, not really – I fucking love
him, and who else would put up with my crazy ass?). Anyway, let’s get back to Mayor Gia, who had
the brilliant idea of adult trick-or-treating for alcohol. This is another woman I want to drink with –
but no wine coolers. In the world of
Adult Trick or Treat, Bartles and Jaymes is equivalent to pennies or rotten
bananas. She’s the mayor of her own
crazy town, and sheriff too. I wouldn’t
mind getting in trouble with the law if it meant spending time with this bad
ass babe.
#5. Yeah … you guessed it. I need not spread the love for her; it’s
already out there – lots and lots of love.
Nonetheless, Jenny Lawson is truly an inspiration to me, and many
others. Lawson is an inspiration not for
her blog alone, but for sharing her life with us – no holds barred. I love that she addresses her anxiety and
depression, letting us know we are not alone.
Such sharing and motivating is a personal goal of mine as well, through
my writing and my every word and action in life outside the blogging community. Lawson also allowed me to trust myself and be
genuine. Yeah, I said “fuck.” So what?
I love Lawson’s phrase: “It’s only offensive to assholes.” I embraced that shit like nobody’s
business! Like Mother Teresa, but
better, if you’re not already all over that, you need to check out TheBloggess right this fucking instant!
And I also have to give a shout out here to my best friend, Angie. Angie doesn’t blog, but she reads mine
faithfully and encourages me constantly.
Angie read Lawson’s blog after Beyoncé (not Knowles – the giant metal
rooster … you really oughtta know) blew up and went crazy viral. She heard my voice in Lawson’s and recognized
our similar personalities and struggles.
Thus, Angie felt I could write a popular blog too, and I never, ever
would have embarked upon this journey without her. So, thank you so much Angie! I love you to
the moon and back! Thank you for believing in me. You have helped me back up time and time
again, and I am so blessed with your friendship! Heart icon. Smiley face.
#payitforward
Help spread the love by liking Not Appropriate Angela on facebook!
And, Blogger is still being naughty, but the links should work even if they are not properly highlighting. I linked up the first mention of the blog title, not the individual author's name. Do check them out -- for reals! These women are wonderful!!! (3 Exclamation Marks = You better believe that shit)
You is good, you is awesome, you is important. Thanks so much, bestie. Your blog conjures up a plethora of emotions for me- sometimes hilarious laughter and sometimes tears. You got something special, girl. Keep rocking the hell out of it. And yes- I used the word plethora up there. Also, i found some bff necklaces online, but those bitches were only 10 karat gold. This bitch needs 14, or I be breaking out in green hives and shit.
ReplyDeleteThanks!
Green hives = ain't nobody got time for that shit! Thanks bestie!
DeleteI love ALL of these blogs, and I so approve this post. Especially Mayor Gia. She cracks me up to the point of tears sometimes.
ReplyDeleteTotally love your blog too Ashley! Good luck writing the novel this month. I think you can do it. Are you going to go with the fiction piece you started on yeah write? I thought you had great characterization there. And yes ... Steinbeck felt this way too. <3
DeleteI liked you on fb and like and follow your favorite bloggers. Can I be in the coolclub? I will bring cookies. Or wine. Or both.
ReplyDelete-opinion8dhermit/disorderlywanderlust yippee for yeahwrite so I could find you and others!
Yes! Wine please! And .. totally second your "yippee" for yeah write. I decided Erica is like a blogging fairy godmother. :)
DeleteYou are SO SWEET! Thanks so much for the shout out! I still don't have power at home, but I'm stealing some now and I'm so glad I visited this post today!
ReplyDeleteHey Angela. I felt the need to thank you here, even though I've done it already on my blog and on Twitter, and on Facebook. Is that enough for you? I appreciate that you recognize my badassnessness, and applaud you for not filtering yourself as you say. I am not so brave. I used to write with reckless abandon, and as a result I have been shunned by my entire family. That's no joke! Fuck them, who needs em? I have my kids and my husband's family, they all love me for the retard I am. So, with a little more thought to who I'm going to piss off, I press on. Thanks again, and I think you're funny as shit. :-)
ReplyDeleteYou are welcome. It is deserved. And did you notice my tag line: "Keeping shit real and alienating my relatives." I get it. I'm just keeping in mind the bloggess' advice that if someone is offended, they're probably an asshole.
DeleteWhat a fun list!
ReplyDeleteI only knew 2 of them.