I arrived at my mother’s yesterday afternoon to pick up my
children after work. I am lucky that she
is able to watch them three days a week, so I don’t have the total expense of
day care. I walked in the door, smiling
and happy to see my two beautiful children.
My daughter ran up to me, looked up at my face, and gave me
a great big smile. Something was
definitely different about her though.
“Mom, did you cut Emily’s hair?” I asked.
“Uhm, Emily made me do it! She said she wanted that,” my mom returned,
blaming my two year old toddler for the very crooked set of bangs that now
graced her forehead.
She's still her Momma's smart, gorgeous girl! |
“What happened here?” I asked.
My mother explained that she has been stressed and got
distracted. When the troubles were at their
height earlier in the week, she scrubbed the floors on hands and knees and baked
a homemade German Chocolate cake. This is how my mother copes -- busying herself with tasks and chores around the home to keep her mind off whatever currently has her under duress. I understand that her stess load is enormous right now; trust that I do. However, I wanted to scream at her that chopping
off my daughter’s lovely blonde locks was not the ultimate stress
reliever. “More cake, Mom! No
haircuts!”
But, my daughter is impossibly adorable in my eyes, and her
hair will grow back, so instead I just took it in stride and laughed at my
mother as she continued her attempts to defend herself. “I knew you would probably be pissed because
it’s crooked, so I told Emily I was going to blame it on her. I thought about trying to fix it, but I was
scared I would only make it worse and too short. So, I said, ‘Emily, when your mom gets here,
I’m telling her this was all your idea.’ Are you pissed, Angela?”
“No, mom, she’s still cute.
It’s okay,” I answered. It’s only
bangs, and we have to pick our battles. I
didn’t raise my sword to answer her scissors.
I am trying not to “sweat the small stuff.” But I declare that cake should always be the answer to her stress. More cake, Mom! More cake!
awww she's adorable with crooked, short bangs. but yes, more cake! :)
ReplyDeleteI didn't even notice her bangs were crooked until I read that they were! Hey, at least your mom 'fessed up. And definitely more cake! Cake cake cake!!!
ReplyDeleteYour girl is adorable all right. And I don't see anything wrong with her hair, but then I'm a man so how would I know.
ReplyDeleteHow cute is she?! And I applaud you patience with your mom. My MIL used to threaten to give my daughter bangs and I'm entirely sure things would have gotten VERY ugly if she'd gone there.
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