After informing me that I “totally rock,” Jenny Lawson (oh
yeah … you bet your ass I’m totally bragging about this again) offered me some
small advice on how to grow my blog. The
key is to connect to other bloggers and comment, comment, comment like
crazy. Initially, I opposed this idea
because I hate people as a sweeping generalization. Not like I hate republicans or I hate
homophobes; I just fucking hate people (unless I’ve birthed them). But, I took her advice all the same, and am
actually finding myself quite pleased with the results. In reaching out to other like minds, I was
told I would find my “tribe.” I thought
that term was bizarre, but it turns out that’s a thing too just like “butt-fucking
Egypt.” I have been learning a lot more about blogging. I don’t struggle with the stories; I can
bitch like nobody’s business. But, I don’t
know much about html or java script, and am learning that these are crucial
skills in building a successful blog.
Until earlier this week, I thought a “badge” was just something a police
officer might be showing me for public intoxication or nudity.
This past week, I also attended my first “link party.” I am, however, fairly certain that my blog
did not at all belong linked up to the site I found. I was featured right behind a link on how to
clean your refrigerator correctly and best slow cooker lasagna recipes. Hmmmm … not my tribe. Really, how do those bitches do it all? Who has time to make their own organic baby
food, sew their children’s Halloween costumes, create their own year supply of
laundry detergent, hand-dip vanilla spice candles, build their own shoe
organizer, decorate their home for the holidays with handmade crafts of Styrofoam,
twigs, and berries … and still fucking blog about it all? Seriously, I am asking you how because some
days I don’t even shower and my daughter is running around the house wearing several
pairs of my underwear around her neck (she loves to accessorize) while I
attempt to fold the laundry.
So, my first link party was a total fail. I needed to find a place where I really
belonged. Is there a place for people
like me who aren’t perfect – but are somehow perfectly flawed? After the quilting party kicked me out, I
sought out a site that would actually want to feature a blog like me. Alas! I already feel I have found this
tribe. I knew immediately – just like I
knew when I had found my soul mate. By
the way, my soul mate is not my spouse, but was my queer best friend. Sometimes life works out like that, and you
start sleeping naked with a man the same night you meet him – but honestly just
sleeping, no touching because tits scare him.
I’m hoping to build my tribe in the yeah write community. Yeah Write is essentially an online
coffee house for creative types which describes itself as “1 part blogging showcase, 2 parts
writing challenge, and 3 parts bathtub gin.” Fucking perfect, right? No mention of slow cookers or cloth diapers!
Each week, yeah write offers an
opportunity for bloggers to have their work featured on the site and reviewed
by peers. There are a few rules for
submitted work. For example, the post
must be under 1,000 words and must have a narrative. The folks at yeah write say they want a “so what?” to the story. This, too, is fabulous because I often wrote
these two very words in the margin of student essays. Okay,
you wrote a story about losing your baseball game – so what? Why should I
care? Make me care.
Right now, I know you may be wondering the same thing – so
what? Why are you telling us all this
Angela? Why should we fucking care? This shit isn’t funny; be funny. I’m telling you this so that you are aware I
won’t always be funny. I plan to start
sharing my yeah write submissions on
this site. Many of them are likely to be
a departure from what you have been accustomed to so far. I want to further experiment with my
writing. And, as per the yeah write guidelines, my entries must
have a narrative. You can all admit that
most of my posts thus far have been random stream of consciousness crazy ass
nonsense.
Don’t worry all six of my faithful followers (you know who
you are and I fucking love you) – you’ll still be witness to my righteous
vulgarity. However, you’re also going to
see a side of me that is even more exposed – and frail, and frightened, and
vulnerable. Although my tone may change
in some of the upcoming writing challenges, here’s what you can also depend on
me for: TRUTH. The shit is about to
really get real. This is all a true
story. Buckle up for the ride bitches
because I’m taking it to overdrive.
As always, you can follow Not Appropriate Angela on facebook. You should probably start doing that right now.
I'm so glad you're becoming a part of Yeah Write. You are hilarious. And as a stay-at-home mom with an English degree, some postpartum depression, and a serious case of the potty mouth, I find you so relatable. Looking forward to reading more!
ReplyDeleteThank you so much! I'm super excited.
ReplyDeleteLOVE that you found the YW Tribe. LOVE.
ReplyDeleteKissing you on the mouth for not calling yeah write a linky party. I cringe even when people call it a link up. Inlinkz is the mechanism for submissions and that's all we have in common with linkys. Thanks for stumbling over us.
ReplyDeleteHello from the YeahWrite Tribe. I don't know about ALL of everybody else, but I personally love vulgarity. If you go back to the last week of the summer series, the winning story was all about the word fuck. Which is not to say you should always be vulgar. Just that you don't have to turn it off and get prim. Look into the SITS girls, too. You don't have to do a lot of work (but you do have to be a lot of patient) to be featured in front of 40,000 others!
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