This past week, news broke that a teacher in a neighboring
school district was arrested in connection with a theft investigation. It was believed he had stolen several
electronic items from the school district.
When police arrived to search his residence, the theft was confirmed. Several lap-tops and numerous pieces of lab
equipment were located. Additionally,
the police discovered a large marijuana grow-op.
As an educator, I was frustrated and furious to learn of his
behavior. In addition to such feelings,
I was deeply saddened for the students. They
deserve a teacher who is honest and law-abiding. They deserve a teacher they can respect and
admire. My heart was breaking for
them.
I then grew further saddened, and shocked, when it appeared
that some of the same students for whom I now held such great sympathy seemingly
dismissed the whole situation. Living in
a small town, any local news like this is bound to draw attention, and thus
become a topic of discussion on social media.
As I allow students to befriend me upon graduation via facebook, I was
provided insight into their reactions, and the reactions of current students of
the affected district.
The one status regarding this situation that received the
most “likes” concluded that people shouldn’t be dissing on this teacher and we
all need to “lighten up.” Lighten up? Lighten up? What fucking planet do these kids live
on? It is not the same one I was raised
in. I was raised to believe that teachers
should be positive role models, inspirational leaders, and upstanding citizens
– not individuals with prior convictions under their belt including domestic
abuse and disorderly conduct. How was he
even hired?
If I had learned this news of one of my teachers while I was
in high school I would have been appalled, disgusted, and deeply
disappointed. I certainly would not have
declared, “So what? I’m sure tons of teachers smoke pot, and this poor asshole
is getting all the blame.” This is an
exact comment from a student’s facebook account. This
poor asshole? They had sympathy for the guy?
He had stolen from their district, been dishonest and deceitful and a
potential danger to the students. Where was this coming from, and what student
assumes that the majority of his or her teachers are getting high on the
daily? Why do they think this is
acceptable?
Maybe I’m a prude (albeit one with a potty mouth) and maybe
I’m a Pollyanna, but I expect more from teachers and would never accept or
excuse such behavior. I don’t know the
true character of this man, and certainly we have all made mistakes in our
pasts. However, once we become parents
or professionals, or just grow the fuck up for fuck’s sake, there comes a time
to put those foolish errors behind us and be the best person we can be. Therefore, I refuse to lighten up or excuse
his behavior. Further, I place blame
with the school board and administration who hired this man. We must expect more of our teachers and our
administration. We should expect them to
act always in the best interest of the students. What does it say about our standards when the
affected students respond with a resounding “meh”? Would they respond the same if they yet
believed that the district had their best interests in mind? Their response speaks to me of an ugly
society that has repeatedly let them down, let them down so badly that they
don’t believe they deserve better.
I, on the other hand, still believe they do. I remain firm in my resolve that we must
demand more and make strong education a priority. I sure as hell hope I’m not alone in this, and
I hold on to hope that other students, their parents, and the community at
large will demand better instead of dismissing this situation.
I'm with you on this one. I don't think anyone expects teachers to have led a perfectly pristine existence right up until the moment they enter the field of education. Once they do, though, I believe they do have an obligation to be positive role models.
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